I have been meaning to share the view outside my dad's hospital room.
Someone attached three super heros onto a string, and they fly right by the windows.
Super heros = people you look up to. People you want to emulate and celebrate.
My dad has been my hero these last several months. Going through some pretty tough surgeries, and now having a trach temporarily take his voice, he has been nothing but positive and strong. He always has a big smile for me, and like I shared before, always jokes with me and the nurses.
He is able to cough through his trach, and does it well. He was telling me the other day he scared a nurse, made her jump, because his cough was so loud.
This is how he told me:
I had to take a photo of that, because it makes me smile. I look at it often.
So many of you continue to ask about him and send positive thoughts, and I thank you for all of them. Your words mean more than you know. Dad is doing well, and is now at home. I have this nurse thing down to an imperfect science, and it's a nice visit each morning when I show up. We had an oncologist appointment today - I really like his whole team of doctors - and he starts chemo treatment this Thursday. I will keep you updated - his plan goes several months.
Now I have sat here at my keyboard for the last several minutes, not knowing how to say what I have to say.
We lost Jason's dad yesterday. It was completely unexpected and we are numb with shock and sadness. One day I may share more about Jason's dad, and what an amazing person he was. I am so happy to have known him, he was another who was positive and funny and always put others before himself.
As they say back in Missouri, very Salt of the Earth.
The world lost a good one yesterday. A real life hero.
Bob, you impacted many. You are dearly missed, by many.
Kath (My Funny Little Life) says
In (again) lack of apropriate words, I just say that I wonder whether that's a brachiosaurus in your dad's drawing. I actually think it is, because brachiosaurus was a rather nice one (for a dinosaur). I like that. And I'm with you and Jason in my thoughts, you always know that. 🙂
spabettie says
sweet kath, I knew you would appreciate this drawing - (I often call my dad's personality "cute", much in the same way I describe YOURS) 😀
I think it IS a brachiosaurus... my dad is a nice one too 🙂 thank you for always making me smile.
Kath (My Funny Little Life) says
I actually LOVE the drawing! 😀
Green Dog Wine says
You guys are in my thoughts and prayers - I'm so sorry for your loss 🙁
spabettie says
thank you so much <3
JL goes Vegan says
Oh, sweetie, this is so tough! I'm thinking of you and Jason and hoping you find strength in one another (I know you are). xo
spabettie says
thank you SO much, dear. it means a lot. <3
Maryea {Happy Healthy Mama} says
I am so, so sorry to hear this. 🙁 Saying a prayer for you and your family right now.
spabettie says
thank you SO much, Maryea. <3
Pure2raw twins says
so sorry for your loss!!! thinking of you, Jason and your families.
hugs
Jennie (the gf-gf) says
The picture your dad drew made me smile, too 🙂 My dad would probably do the same - his drawings are awful but always make me laugh. Dads are special people, and I'm so sorry to hear the loss of Jason's.
spabettie says
thank you, Jennie.
and yes, I really love this dino from Dad... it really does make me smile every time I see it. 🙂
bitt says
So sorry for your loss. So hard in any circumstance. It sounds like you are making the most of your time with your dad. Sending all my love and prayers for your family.
spabettie says
thanks, Bitt - that means a lot. and yeah, I am thankful I can take this time to be with my dad, and be a caregiver. couldn't imagine it any other way.
Carrie says
Kristina, my heart goes out to you and your husband. My dad died a little over a month ago. Dads are special people and it's hard to lose them. Hugs to you, Carrie
spabettie says
I am so sorry for your loss, Carrie. yes, it's never easy. I am so thankful that I am able to spend time with my dad right now, and be his caregiver.
Geanna says
I am so, so sorry to hear that, Kristina. My thoughts are with you and Jason during this difficult time.
Lauren @ Oatmeal after Spinning says
I'm so sorry to hear this news. Lots of love to you and your family.
xoxo